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Kids Wish Lists for the Holidays
Nov 15 2010 02:00 PM | Liz Strauss  in Raising Money Minded Kids -----
My mom always shopped early for the holidays and often shopped by ordering from catalogues and with coupons. She said that staying out of stores saved her money. I believed her then, and believe her even more now. She also got us involved in an activity that taught the mechanics of window shopping from a catalogue.

Every year, from January through October, my mom would make a point of collecting the flyers and catalogues from toy companies. Then early in November, she would set us down with a slew of them. She’d lay out the challenge to write up a wish list of what we might want for the holidays. She’d explain that we could take up to one day to finish our lists. Each list had to be neatly done and ready to order from.

The task was both exciting and grueling. We had to write every detail for ordering the items we might want: item, item number, description, page number in the catalogue, quantity. Every item on the list had to be under $25.00. Her promise was that we would get one item on our list.

The activity would keep me busy for hours.

Turn the lists into a game by having kids exchange lists and read aloud part of a description to see whether a child can recognize something they’ve chosen. Use the lists for simple money problems like these:
• How many hours would you have to work to earn this item at $24.15 if I paid you 25 cents an hour?
• How many hours do you think you would use this game that costs $15.00? How many hours do you think you would use this toy that costs $25.00? Which one is a better value?

Then challenge the kids to make up their own wish list questions for you and each other.
On another day, you might have them make a wish list of gifts for other members of the family.

Do this activity early enough to ensure that you have time to order the one thing from the list (just as you promised).





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Sabrina O’Malone 

15 November 2010 - 08:40 AM
Hey Liz,

I LOVE your Mom's idea! What a wonderful way to get the kids excited while maintaining some fiscal discipline and common sense about the things they are wishing for.

We're going to do the same thing this year. I'll start by saving the "pre-black Friday" catalogs that are coming in from various stores.

Thanks for the great idea!

Sabrina
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Mrs. Q 

17 November 2010 - 03:29 AM
This is a wonderful idea!
1st because it sets a budget and expectations.
2nd it makes the children think and re-think of what they will be asking for.
3rd it might prevent them from tugging at your skirt when you're at the store to purchase an item (off season, that is).
4th (lastly) it teaches the kids to Delay gratification.
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Eva Rosenberg 

19 November 2010 - 11:26 AM
Hi Liz,

Wish Lists for children - and everyone IS a wonderful idea.

How much better is it when you can give people exactly what they desire - whether it be time, things, or actions.

About 15 years ago, I pioneered the idea of the Universal Wish List (based loosely on the idea of a bridal registry). I sold the company long ago.

But the current owners do offer a free, universal wish list - http://mywishlist.com/
Use it for the holidays. Or anytime.

Hugs

Eva
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martha 

21 November 2010 - 12:16 AM
Very Good Idea Liz! I'll try it with all my kids! Going to malls and standing in long lines can be very stressful these days.

Keep those great ideas coming!

By the way, I'm a new member so I am trying to improve myself in all that I do these days. Thank you for your information!

:rolleyes: Martha
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Liz Strauss 

26 November 2010 - 10:32 PM
Hi all,
Sorry it took a while to get back here! I had a problem getting my password to work.

Sabrina,
My mom would start us on a Saturday some time in October and give us weeks to work on our lists. We were only promised one thing for sure. Little did we know that by the time we started she had already purchased and wrapped most of what would be our gifts that year. A clever lady she was.
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Liz Strauss 

26 November 2010 - 10:34 PM
Hi Mrs. Q.
I'm with you on all four points.
Recently I wrote a post for this blog about delayed gratification. Hopefully it will include a video of when adults are asked to delay gratification too. heh heh
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Liz Strauss 

26 November 2010 - 10:36 PM
Hi Eva,
A wish list does make life a whole lot easier for all -- especially those of us who are far away from the people we want to send a special gift to. What was nice about building those wish lists as a child was the "window shopping" part of dreaming while writing the list. It was, for a moment, as if I was ordering it all. :)
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Liz Strauss 

26 November 2010 - 10:38 PM
Hi Martha!
So nice to meet you! We're all new here and learning from each other as we go along. That's part of the wonder and beauty of the web. Thank you for taking the time to let me know this one works for you!
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